All my bar charts are zeroed on the average picture. One of the first things we noticed when diving into our pool of photos is that men and women have very different approaches to the camera.
Now, you’re always told to look happy and make eye contact in social situations, but at least for your online dating photo, that’s just not optimal advice.
Its no secret that most of us single middle-aged divorced guys have checked out dating sites.
In looking closely at the astonishingly wide variety of ways our users have chosen to represent themselves, we discovered much of the collective wisdom about profile pictures was wrong.
For interested readers, I explain our measurement process, and how we collected our data, at the end of the post.
Cute as he, she, or it may be, you can expect his/her/its presence to slice your popularity in half.
“Which one are you,” your suitors will wonder, “The blonde, the redhead, or the dog?
One thing I can't get over is how notoriously bad men's dating site profile pictures are.
It's like they put zero attention and effort into trying to present their best self (although it's a problem when they put too much focus on it), and yet they're doing nothing but assessing women's photos for "hotness" potential.The Bathroom Selfie I'm not clear on why men suddenly remember that they need a profile pic when they're (hopefully) washing their hands in a public bathroom.Maybe they're on a bad date from a dating site and they're ready to attract someone else. I just find the bathroom a dumb place to take a selfie.An old college buddy and I recently compared notes and identified seven types of photos that make us swipe left: 1. Trust me ladies, you don't want to be in the background of your pet (cat, dog, iguana, other). But a guy is going to start wondering how he can possibly fit into this complicated love triangle. Again, being visual, guys want to have multiple points of reference; that's just the way we are. One is left scratching one's head, so unless this speaks to you ... Sometimes it feels like the foundation of your social life is so strong that you no longer find the opportunity to meet new and exciting people.Sunglasses We all have sunglasses; they serve an important function and can look quite stylish. And the more unconventional the solitary photo, the more head scratching will occur. Grainy Photos Digital devices these days have such amazing resolution and are so foolproof that even the most inexperienced photographer can produce a nice clear pic, right? if you take a new photo of an old photo, like one born from a negative (think dark room) then it might well turn out grainy. We want to have some sense of the female figure we're considering dating. Throw a barbecue or party in which guests bring a friend that no one in the group knows.Like, what could possibly be so disturbing that it needs to be shrouded in secrecy? Group Shots OK, yes she has friends and that's great! Digging deeper reveals multiple group shots, but again, which lady am I supposed to be focusing on?