Once he realizes that the relationship he has with your neighbor doesn’t bother you, he will probably stop the act and continue with his life.
So you’re halfway through your freshman orientation and noticed that your next-door neighbor is a total catch.After spending time together and hitting it off, you are faced with the decision of whether you think it is a good idea to date your neighbor.Need a quick answer to a career or personal dilemma?Career and life coach Marielys Camacho-Reyes will answer your concerns in her advice column “Dear Mary.” Dear Mary, I’m a recently divorced woman whose ex-husband had the greatest idea of starting a new romantic relationship my next-door neighbor.I’m not sure if they were having a relationship before we divorced or what, but what I do know is that now they are seeing each other.
It bothers me that he’s doing this with this person knowing that I live door to door with her. What really bothers me is that he knows I don’t like this person and even knowing that, he decided to date her right in front of my nose. The Next-Door Neighbor Dear Next-Door Neighbor, The answer to your question is “yes.” I think you should ignore them.
With that in mind, we set out to find some real people who've gotten romantically entangled within their area code -- or their own block -- to learn the true pros and cons of getting friendly with the neighbors.
Pro: It doesn't get more convenient "In college, I lived across the street from a group of male friends.
There have been times when I have seen him coming out of her apartment at night and, to be honest with you, it drives me insane. I think he’s being very insensitive with the whole situation. This sounds like your ex is trying to make you jealous.
Maybe, he’s jealous of the relationship that you have and wants to show you how happy he is without you. If you show him that you are upset, he will continue messing with your head.
If you guys have no plan to get back together, he can date whoever he wants, and unfortunately, if your neighbor is available, there is nothing you can do to prevent him from dating her if that’s what he really wants to do.