“I’ve always gone from relationship to relationship, or fling to fling, or whatever, like I’ve always had somebody in my life.”She allow herself to get a little vulnerable, though, saying that she's not 100% confident all the time. Demi's never been shy about revealing personal details about her life; it's one of the things we love the most about her.
On August 17, Demi told Sirius XM that she’s exploring the single life and learning new lessons about herself in the meantime.“This time, “This time, for the first time, I’m not dating anybody,” she said.“I’ve been enjoying being independent and living on my own and trying to navigate through adult life.”Before splitting with Bomba, Demi was involved in a long-term relationship with actor Wilmer Valderrama, who she remains super-close with. ’ But I’m learning how to be comfortable with being alone, and I think that’s the most important thing you can do for yourself, especially as a woman – to find your independence."It seems like Demi is totally ready to do her own thing, and we know that whatever she chooses in the future, she'll make it work.I remember my first summer in New York City, when I was getting over a relationship that ended after five years.My sister took me aside and gave me the best piece of dating advice I've heard to this day: "Be selfish." Not rude and mean selfish, but you-do-you selfish.When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s hard not to feel that you are a victim.
After all, others can be cruel; you will get hurt, and no, it isn’t always your fault.Since that advice was so helpful to me, I decided to poll different women to find out the best advice ever received when they were single.Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be.But as their lively conversation progressed, their disappointment and even hopelessness became palpable: “Why didn’t he text back? ” “I thought we were a couple, but then my best friend told me his profile said he was single and searching.” “I can’t believe he was married.” These laments are nothing new.Generations of women and men have suffered rejection, self-doubt, profound sadness, and a shattered sense of reality when a would-be suitor ended things abruptly or slipped silently away without a proper goodbye.They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life.